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Shabbat Chaye Sarah  24 MarCheshvan 5766, 26 November 2005

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Shabbat Shalom Rabbi Shlomo Riskin

Shabbat Shalom: Parshat Chaye Sarah Genesis 23:1-25:18
By Shlomo Riskin

Efrat, Israel - This week’s Biblical reading opens with a strange and verbose dialogue that seems to go in circles. Abraham requires a burial plot for his beloved wife Sarah, who has just died. He asks “to be given the possession of a grave” (23:4), and he is immediately told that he can choose anyone he wishes (23:5). Here is where the discussion ought end: request granted. But apparently the patriarch is not satisfied; he insists on meeting a certain Efron ben Zahar, from whom he wishes to purchase a field with a two-story cave for “full money as a possession” (23:9). Efron seems most accommodating, wishing to give him the cave as a gift. Abraham remains dissatisfied, so Efron charges him four-hundred shekels of silver, and the purchase deal is consummated. What’s going on? Why does Abraham insist on paying for what he can obtain free of charge? What happened to his Jewish “bargain-hunting” gene?

Rav Elhanan Samet drew my attention to the studies of Prof. Moshe Veinfeld and Ezra Tziyon Melamed, who reveal that in the ancient Middle East only a resident citizen - in this case, a bona fide Hittite - could purchase land which would become his eternal possession which he could bequeath to his descendants. Abraham is not interested in a temporary grave-site which would revert to Hittite property after his death, Abraham wants Sarah’s remains to be the patrimony of his progeny eternally. Hence he is requesting special treatment even though he is an alien resident (ger toshav), a Hebrew and not a Hittite; he wants an eternal possession of a grave, that he can bequeath to his descendants, for which he will gladly pay. (Ahuzat Keser, the possession, eternal ownership, of the grave). And such a concession can only be made - and given - with the permission and in the presence of all the Hittite together, in a public forum, a town meeting.

Abraham is initially refused this request. Although the denial is couched in most complimentary terms - “a prince of G-d are you in our midst” - Abraham is unequivocally informed that although noone will withhold his gravesite from him, the grave will have to remain the eternal possession of the Hittite who owns it. Abraham can use or borrow anyone’s grave that he wishes, but he will not have it as his possession, it will not become an inheritance he will be able to pass on to his descendants.

Abraham tries again. He wishes to meet Efron, who apparently owns the last parcel of Hittite land. Abraham now asks to be able to purchase the end of that estate, with a two-story cave upon it which can become a mausoleum for Sarah (and later on for himself as well, and for his children and grand-children); and the patriarch is willing - nay insistent - to pay “full money”, but it must become his “possession of the cave,” a piece of land that he truly owns and that he can pass down to his future generations (23:9).

Efron once again tries to pawn the land off as a gift - it will cost you nothing, you can use it in your lifetime as a burial plot, but you will not own it; Abraham insists on purchase. He pays a sum which would ordinarily acquire 150 dunam of land, but at the end of the negotiation, “the field of Efron which was of two stories..., the field and the cave which was on it..., went up as an acquisition to Abraham in the presence of the Hittite... for the possession of a grave...”(23:17-20). It became Abraham’s possession, an inheritance which he could bequeath to his descendants.

Abraham’s request reverberates through the millennia and speaks to us in a most timely manner. The Hebrew is addressing the Gentile who has inhabited the land he was promised by G-d: Give to me the right to bequeath this land to my descendants; I shall pay for it in any way you wish to exact payment, in demim (money) or, if it G-d forbid be necessary, in dam (blood). But don’t do me any favors; I am willing to do whatever I must do to acquire it as my possession.

The fact that the very first plot of land ‘acquired by right of ownership” in Israel is the grave-site of Sarah is fraught with profound significance; Israel is the land of our continuity, the place of our eternity. It was never meant for temporary use by our people; it is our eternal homeland. And just as Abraham insists on paying for Sarah’s grave - so that it can never revert back to any other Gentile owner - so does King David insist upon paying Arvona the Jebusite for the land which was to become the Temple Mount: “Nay, I must purchase, yes purchase it from you, for a price, so that I not make my offerings to the G-d of whole burnt offerings free of charge (without the legal right of ownership).” (Samuel 2, 24:24); and again, “Nay, I will purchase, yes purchase it for full silver (cash money, Kesef Male, chronicles 1, 21:24).

From this perspective, we can well understand why our Talmudic Sages derive the husband-wife acquisition - engagement (Kinyan Kidushin) by means of a wedding ring from Abraham’s acquisition of Efron’s field for Sarah’s burial plot by means of a financial transfer. A Jewish marriage is an eternal relationship of responsibility which extends even beyond the spouse’s lifetime; a Jewish marriage portends continuity from generation to generation; the relationship of the nation of Israel to the land of Israel is an eternal one, which extends from generation to generation.

How ironic it is that the two sacred places whose purchase contract by Israel is recorded in the Bible - the Cave of the Couples and the Temple Mount - remain the most hotly contested areas in Israel by our Arab neighbors?!




Shabbat Shalom 
Shlomo Riskin
Chancellor Ohr Torah Stone
Chief Rabbi - Efrat Israel

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