Q & A - WITH RABBI RISKIN
Question: Teshuva seems almost impossibly
difficult. What is the most important thing for an individual to work on?
Answer: Yom Kippur, with its confessional of "al chayt",
takes care of our sins before G-d; there is even one very respected view in
the Talmud (the view of Rabbi Yehuda HaNassi, no less) which maintains that
Yom Kippur forgives even without the individual's repentance! (B.T Shevuot
13A).
Hence, the most important area for us to work on is that of our human
relationships; gossip (even if its true), slander, taking advantage of those
who are closest to us and whom we sometimes take for granted (like our
spouses and even our children). The great sin of causeless hatred (even if
you are sure there is a cause, and especially if you think the cause is
leShem Shamayim), which leads to divisiveness and internal dissention is
just the kind of societal worm that internally destroys the very
infrastructure or our community and our nation.
Teshuva can sometimes be best be expressed by saying "good
morning" and "good Shabbes" to everyone we meet. And
recognizing the fact that the ability to overlook even what we may think is
imperfection in someone else will only help us to better perfect ourselves.
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