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OTS Newsletter - Fall 2008Monica Dennis Goldberg School Graduates: Heading Off Disaster
While renowned for their success in helping women gain their freedom after many years from husbands who refuse to grant them a Jewish divorce, graduates of the Monica Dennis Goldberg School of Women Advocates often provide another critical service: preventing divorce cases from becoming long, drawn-out battles with ever-diminishing hopes for resolution. Moriah Dayan, an MDG graduate employed in the school’s Yad L’Isha Legal Aid Center and Hotline, tells how she saw warning signs that a recent case could turn into protracted battle of a husband blackmailing his wife for financial payment in exchange for granting a get. “Moshe and Dina S. had been married for just a year and a half when Dina left the house because Moshe was physically abusive,” Moriah relates. “While they originally filed a joint request for a divorce, Moshe soon reneged on this and began making financial demands on his wife.” After Dina turned to Yad L’Isha, Moriah’s first move was obtaining a court order to prevent the husband from leaving the country. “This angered him, because he works in high-tech and needs to travel frequently,” Moriah says. “As a result, he raised the financial stakes even higher.” In response, Moriah requested that a special hearing take place before his next scheduled trip abroad. Backed by his family, Moshe refused to allow Moriah’s presence at the hearing. “I could have insisted on being there, but I chose to respect the husband’s wishes and do everything I could to end this case as soon as possible,” she explains. Instead, Moriah sat in a different part of the court, listening to the proceedings by cell phone and advising her client via SMS messages. Moriah’s actions paid off: the hearing was tense, but no further confrontations took place and the get was granted. “Based on what I was taught, as well as on my experience,” Moriah maintains, “I can say with absolute certainty that this early intervention and even the compromise of sitting outside enabled Dina to avoid a nightmare of blackmail and years of suffering in chains.”
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